25 May 2024
Men often fear they won't meet past expectations of successful intimate relationships due to their entrenched performance complex.
Admit to his insecurities regarding intimacy
Low self-esteem exacerbates the issue because it causes him to lose confidence when someone says something negative about his performance.
If he acknowledges that he has no idea how to win women over, the reaction may be spectacular. All that is available to him are stories, articles, and videos.
Admit he doesn't know what he's doing
It is necessary to be compassionate and demonstrate to him how to delight you if he is strong enough to own his incapacity.
Rejection can be due to performance issues or mood issues, but it can be emotionally and mentally devastating when intimacy is closed.
Admit he feels rejected when his lover says no
It can demoralize individuals and paralyze men who cannot distinguish between rejection and reality, making it difficult to find fulfillment in relationships.
In a coaching session, a couple struggled with intimacy. The man opened up about controlling his wife, which made him cower.
Admit that control can scare him
Both men and women like control, and no one is truly in control. When a woman dominates a relationship, it can scare a man to a place of uselessness.